Self pity

So often rather than not, people usually especially girls wrote something that made them look dumb (yaya,im not witting abt u) or feel like committing suicide etc Usually the person who cares most would be worried or comforting the person. But the thing is how do you know whether the person purposely do it to seek attention to themselves and always try to seek cheap feeling of being loved. The thing was I was one of those guys.Pretty much is because i was just a blind fool during that period(yes2 you guys know the story) but im just curious why does a person want to do that? Why more attention? You think you that pretty deserve that attention? Come on ah,im just sick seeing this stereotype of girls who wants to be loved.Stop being that way and moans about it.Instead try to solve it your own way.You have been wondering do you have friends,i would say yes u did have friends,the key words is did and you knows well why as well.If you just stop being an idiot and get on,there would be less people get irritated by you thus having more friends. Is that so hard?